
Change the way your child thinks
Aug 08 - 2020
Children
are born as a white page that their parents or family members fill with a set
of things that will benefit them throughout their lives, and among these things
we find the skills that parents teach their children. Parents have to teach
their children the skills that fall within the framework of good morals and
values and to keep them away from
learning skills that lead a person to waste time or do things that are not
good.
Childhood
stages:
In the same
context, we note that according to psychology, the childhood stage is divided
into four stages:
The cradle stage, that is, from the birth of the
child to the age of two years, then the early childhood stage, which begins at
the end of the first stage and ends at the age of eight years, then comes the
late childhood stage, which ends at the age of twelve and finally the stage of
adulthood, which ends with the end of childhood, i.e. eighteen Year.
The skills that a child must learn and develop differ
from one stage to another.
Cradle stage skills:
In the
cradle stage, the child must learn standing and walking skills and then develop
them with the help of his parents or older siblings if he has them, because
walking is one of the most important things that a child must acquire at this
stage, in addition to teaching the child how to play with games that will make
him feel active And vital, in addition to his inclusion in the communication
process of family members through trying to make him laugh or ask him about
something and repeat the question, although we know that he will not answer,
but in this way he will realize that he has to communicate and whoever will
subconsciously try to develop speech skills in another childhood stage.
Early childhood skills:
Early
childhood stage is a stage full of skills that the child should learn, such as
speaking, communicating and expressing feelings by laughing when joyful or
crying when sad and anxious. Learning to read and write is also very important
at this stage where parents can encourage their children to do so and set aside
time for reading with It is also important at this stage for parents to help
their children find their talent or hobby and encourage them to do so and to be
creative in what they love to do by providing a decent and comfortable
atmosphere for them so that they can harness their talents in what is useful to
them. In addition, children between the ages of three and eight years are in
dire need of learning the skills of making friends and playing together with
their peers.
Late childhood skills:
This stage
is distinguished from its predecessors by the fact that the child has acquired
a set of skills that allow him to participate in his surroundings and express
his opinion on several topics, then his brain cells are active and nearly fully
developed and thus the child is ready to learn many things, especially if he is
a student - which is something We urge, that is, that parents include their
children in school - because in school children learn many things , including
correcting their language and being able to relative it, as they learn how to
count and communicate.
Adulthood skills:
This stage
is characterized by the difficulty of parents dealing with their children due
to the stage of adolescence that coincides with this stage, where the child
becomes his own desires that are imbued with it and some features of rebellion
appear in him in order to highlight his presence, but this does not mean that
he will not learn new skills at this stage, but in addition to What he learns
outside the home in school or in its surroundings, he can be taught skills at
home, such as motivating him to organize his things and help in some home
tasks, then he can be entertained by teaching him new games such as playing
cards or chess to develop his mental skills.
at the end, we recommend that you allocate part of
your time and effort as parents to work on the quality of the skills that you
pass to your children in order to facilitate their lives later on, because
everything you will teach them will definitely benefit them at a certain age.