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Understanding How Your Child Thinks

No two children think alike. Each one develops their own way of seeing the world, shaped by the people around them, their experiences and the things they play with. Understanding how your child thinks helps you support them, and gently widen their thinking where it helps.

Let them draw

Drawing is one of the easiest windows into a child’s mind. Keep paper and colours where your child can reach them, and let them draw whatever they like. Instead of asking “What is it?”, say “Tell me about your picture.” You will learn what they notice, what they feel and what matters to them. A double-sided drawing board or a reusable LCD Writing Tablet makes drawing an everyday habit.

Watch them play

How does your child approach a new toy? Do they read the picture first, experiment straight away or wait to be shown? Do they build carefully or knock it down to see what happens? None of these is right or wrong, but each tells you something.

Ask “how” and “why”

Ask your child how they solved a puzzle or why they chose a colour. Listening to their explanation shows you how they reason.

Widen their thinking gently

Once you know your child’s style, add new experiences. A child who loves rules may enjoy open-ended art; a child who loves stories may enjoy a puzzle that tells a sequence. Try new kinds of play side by side, without pressure.

Adjust your own approach

Understanding your child’s thinking also helps you explain things in a way that makes sense to them, and reduces frustration on both sides.

Explore Arts & Creative Toys, or choose “Creativity and imagination” in the Smart Guide.

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